Woman Ditches Date After He Catfished And Diminished Her Accomplishments

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Apr 10, 2022 3:00 PM EDT

We never know how first dates are going to go, especially when it comes to online dating. Even though guys could look pretty darn good on their dating app profile, they might not be what meets the eye. You may have thought you finally found a modern-day Prince Charming, but so many things could go wrong once you meet up in person. He could have used fake or old pictures to lure you in or pretended to be someone he's not over text. Either way, the people we meet over dating apps aren't always what we expect them to be. In a Reddit Dating post, a woman shared how she showed up to a Tinder date, and the man in question appeared to be 35 more pounds than he appeared to be in his pictures, but she was willing to let it slide until he became disrespectful. That's precisely when she decided to dip. Scroll down to decide whether or not she made the right choice. 

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  • 01
    Font - r/dating - Posted by u/ImportantComposer3 83 16 hours ago Awful first date (was I wrong for walking out?)
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    It had to have been pretty terrible for her to walk out. 

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    Font - First time meeting this guy (25M) off tinder. He seemed super chatty via text and gave off a friendly vibe. When I arrived, it was obvious he used outdated pictures because he looked older and a solid 35 pounds heavier. I
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    We knew it was too good to be true. 

  • 03
    Font - was able to look past that part, but his personality was insufferable. It's not what he said but how he said it; as in, he was being super condescending. He pulled out "36 questions to fall in love" on his phone and asked:
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    Font - what's your biggest accomplishment in life? I said I didn't graduate high school on time and went back years later to graduate and upgrade. Then I got accepted into a four year nursing program, which I'll graduate from next year. I know this doesn't seem like a big deal to most, but during that time a family member I was very close with was dying of cancer and made it to my graduation (less
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  • 05
    Font - than a month before she passed) so yeah a big accomplishment to me. He said “cool" very unenthusiastically while avoiding eye contact, then said “kinda a cop out but alright" That was the final straw for me, so when he went to the bathroom I paid for my drink and booked it outta there. Blocked him on everything
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    Font - when I got to my car and peeled out. I could have handled the situation differently but this was hands down the rudest person I've met online and I couldn't talk to him for another minute. Just wanted to go home and smoke a joint to take the edge off. Not to mention I looked good and definitely did NOT misrepresent myself.
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    Font - BewBewsBoutique - 16 hr. ago No. I personally think more people should feel confident to just stand up and walk away when things go south. You don't owe anyone your time. Especially if they don't seem to respect you.
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  • 08
    Font - tinzor · 15 hr. ago Well done for maintaining respectable standards for yourself. Keep it up, it's crazy out there but there are good people to meet!
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    Plant - NaturallyWacky · 14 hr. ago Dodged a bullet hun. People who downplay or are outright dismissive of your accomplishments are abusive.
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    Font - carandfreedomgeek · 12 hr. ago My god what is wrong with people today? I bet later he was wondering why the hell he's still alone. Probably refers to you as...well, not with good words. Did these people just have shit parents or something???
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    Hair - Beneficial_Avocado74 - 14 hr. ago Peeling out the parking lot like that... badass...
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    Font - pikachu5actual - 14 hr. ago Sounds about right to me. You did good standing up for yourself OP!
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